Sunday, May 3, 2009

Dudley's Solo


I thought that it would be nice to share with you this lovely children's book I found entitled Dudley's Solo by Tiffany Alexander.

I did discuss before that as parents, I feel that it is our duty to develop the good habit of reading in our kids. I won't go into it's advantages or benefits as I've already touched on that in one of my previous posts. Suffice it to say that developing good reading habits in our kids is always beneficial to them.

Part of encouraging our kids to love reading is providing them with reading materials that not only develop the habit of reading but also allow them to learn something important about life.

Dudley's Solo is an excellent book that makes kids learn valuable lesson in life. It teaches kids to embrace their individuality and find delight in it.

The book tells the story of Dudley, a little boy who can't hear or speak. He is surrounded by friends, who because they didn't have the same disability as Dudley had, could perform in musicals. Dudley, however, didn't let his limitations stop him from being part of the group, from contributing a lovely performance of his own and becoming happy.

Such a heartwarming tale that teaches kids to love themselves despite their imperfections.

Accepting oneself, one's uniqueness, is important for our kids to learn because as they grow older, they will see that society will not always look with favor at most human imperfections, no matter how absurd that practice may be. Making kids learn early in life that part of being human is being imperfect and making them accept that, getting them to be comfortable with it, making them love themselves despite of it, helping them work around it and making them focus on their strengths instead, will be such a great help to them.

I hope you will take the time to check out this heartwarming book. Here are additional descriptions of the book:

"You've got to accentuate the positive.
Author encourages kids to embrace each other's talents and abilities.

"Atlanta, Ga. - Whether you were the lanky redheaded, freckled face girl with glasses or the chubby, big-eared boy with braces, we've all been teased for being different. In fact, as many as half of all children are bullied at some point during their school years, and at least 10 percent are bullied on a regular basis, according to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP).

"However, children's author Tiffany Alexander believes it is possible to teach children to embrace the qualities that make them different. In her new children's book, "Dudley's Solo" (Alexander Vision LLC, March 2009), Alexander reveals how positive attitudes can change the way we tackle obstacles in our lives. She speaks to kids and parents alike on embracing our differences, being thankful for our God-given talents and realizing the importance of helping others.

"Growing up visually impaired had a tremendous impact on my life," says Alexander, who was legally blind until middle school. "I could do what most of the kids could do, but I always had limitations. As hard as it was to be different, I gained inner-strength and the desire to persevere no matter what."

"The first book in the Children's Band series, "Dudley's Solo" takes place at a neighborhood church where the children's band excitedly rehearses for their upcoming choir concert, including Dudley, a hearing-impaired little boy. But being deaf doesn't prevent him from participating in the concert. Encouraged by his friends and father, Dudley embraces his disability and becomes the star of the show by signing the words to "He's Got the Whole World in His Hands" to the entire congregation.

"Children's band was instrumental in my spiritual and social growth. Like Dudley, this is where I received my earliest encouragement," Alexander says. "The other kids and I learned the importance of volunteering, being a good citizen, and mostly importantly, I learned that I could do anything if I put my mind to it."

"Dudley's Solo" encourages kids to:
-have self-confidence and to believe in themselves,
-embrace their differences,
-never give up on something you really want and
-find the positive lesson in every challenge they are handed."

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13 comments:

Jan said...

"Making kids learn early in life that part of being human is being imperfect and making them accept that, getting them to be comfortable with it, making them love themselves despite of it, helping them work around it and making them focus on their strengths instead, will be such a great help to them."

This is so true, Dee. That's a very important point and it's best that parents have to impart this to their kids.

This is an essential skill every parent should have. And that to accept each child as a unique individual - with his/her own strengths, gifts, and yes, even weaknesses.

Dee said...

@Jan: There was a period in my growing up years when I went thru self-doubt because of peer... pressure, I would say, and that was hard. I'd like to believe I eventually came together nicely though, and I thought I wouldn't want my kid to go through that, nor should any other kid do so, for that matter. So, yes, it's really important to let them know about appreciating themselves, especially before they reach teen years, where peer pressure is strongest and more critical. :D

karmi said...

Hi Dee. This post is about such an important topic these days. Bullying is heartbreaking and anything adults can do to try to teach children how to be confident and look after themselves without hurting others is a big help. Perhaps it's not that easy to raise children sensitive to the feelings of others but every effort is golden.

Anney said...

This looks like a very nice book! Not only educational but children will surely enjoy reading it.

Jan said...

@Dee: What a lucky kid - your kid - to have such wonderful parents. ",)

Sera Melinda said...

I don't have kids, but I'm interested to read this book myself. The story review is touching.

Guess this book is really good for kids in terms of entertaining and morale learning.

lemuel said...

hi dee, reading kiddie books to your child is really enjoyable. although my son is just 2 years old, i regularly buy kiddie books from booksale and read it to him when i go home. he is amazed at the pictures and i think he is beginning to recognize numbers and letters. he also knows how to identify colors too! i know its not a big deal but i get excited because i am a first time parent. i believe reading is much better than tv because the child uses his/her imagination more than just relying on the picture from the tv. is this book available locally? thanks!

elmot said...

is joining this contest already an overkill on my part?

kids are the greatest gift of heaven and i always learn a lot from them; how they gain friends so easily, quarrel with fellow kids but mend their relationship so easy...their simplistic attitude on life is just so amazing.

Jan said...

Yeah, kids are fascinating creatures. How I sometimes wish they'd never grow up! But that's not meant to be as we all know.

I mean daughters generally grow up. But some boys remain to be arrested in development even if they're in their adulthood already.

Maybe we should have more mom Dees in the world.

Dee said...

@Karmi: Oh, yes, you're absolutely right - every effort is a big help. I think parents should equip their kids well before sending them out to the world. :)

@Anney: Yes, I believe they would. Dudley was actually adorable. :)

@Jan: Haha, we're not perfect, and nobody is, but we try to be good parents... Hmm, whatever good means... :)

@Sera Melinda: Yes, it's an excellent book especially in teaching kids become confident about themselves. :)

@Lemuel: Oh, I believe seeing your kid identify numbers, letters, colors, etc. is such a big moment because as parents there's no greater joy in watching our children achieve something, no matter how small. So, it's really just normal to feel proud of your son. I would. I'm happy for you and your wife. Oh, I think this book is available here. :)

@Elmot: Hi! Sorry, this is not a contest. I'm just sharing a book I found to be nice. :)

I agree with your second paragraph. I think adults should remember to be like that, to be like kids. Maybe then, the world wouldn't be so difficult like it is. Thanks, Elmot. :)

@Jan: Haha. "Arrested in development". Isn't there a TV series with that title? Is that what that TV series talks about - "boys remaining to be arrested in development"? That should be interesting to watch.

Natawa naman ako sa comment mo.... hehe. I'm not a perfect mom. Far from it. I'm really just talking about how things should be. :)

Nortehanon said...

Hi Dee.

I love children's books! I have actually started a collection, including some that are written in other languages. I will visit National Bookstore later and see if this book is already available here.

Thanks for the visit. I may be offline until Monday so will greet you in advance, Happy Mother's Day!

caryn said...

i really agree ;-) one thing i'm glad my parents passed on to me is the love for reading ;-)

lemuel said...

thanks Dee, i really enjoy being a parent. i wish it is possible to spend more time with him and still have a decent job that pays well...

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